Culture Shock The culture shock stage begins when an individual starts to be troubled by the very differences they may have been fascinated by when they first immigrated. They may have been missing the subtle cues all along (the subtle communications, the niceties and the avoidances), but culture shock begins to make them aware of how missing those cues sets them apart.
Frustration with assimilation may transform into expressing contempt or disapproval for the host culture. The cultural differences become bothersome or seen as inferior. Fascination may transform into confusion, frustration, extreme homesickness, feelings of hopelessness or dependency, disorientation and isolation.
In extreme cases, culture shock can develop into depression, anxiety issues, insomnia and eating disturbances.
Gradual Adjustment The adjustment stage is a turning point, of sorts. The cloud of culture shock begins to dissipate. The individuals begin to develop a more balanced, objective view of their experiences. They begin to develop routines and patterns that begin to make them feel at home.
They begin to feel a new sense of belonging and sensitivity to the host culture. They may begin to turn their marginalized circumstance into a unique identity constructed upon their own priorities and belief in self. The internal operating system reemerges and the differences begin not to matter. The emphasis becomes about ownership and belonging but not necessarily fitting in.
Adaptation of Biculturalism The adaptation of biculturalism stage can be summarized as the great forgetting. One becomes released from the frustrations of culture shock in that they just don’t matter anymore. One begins to feel at home and doesn’t look back.
Dr. Marek says about cultural adaptation, “It’s partly a skill, but it is also partly a choice to navigate your marginality and play it to your advantage rather than being constrained by it. I can easily imagine that many people in many contexts feel limited by their immersion. But, in most cases, I play it to my advantage.”
Re-entry Shock
The re-entry shock stage happens when individuals return to their culture of origin and realize that they’ve changed in relation to it. They may feel that they wouldn’t necessarily fit in “back home” anymore.
Mikhail, a medical student from Eastern Europe, says, “You go home and it isn’t what you expected it to be anymore. I didn’t fit in anymore. There were even words I forgot from my native language. It was weird, but it’s clear now that the U.S. is where I consider home.”
Conclusion
Harvard University professors Robert Kegan and Lisa Lahey regard the cognitive and emotional energies of people to be an organization’s most valuable resource. This is especially true of health care organizations. It behooves health care leaders to attend to the issues faced by their foreign-born physicians, nurses, PAs, technicians and others.
Hospital systems can educate their leadership and staff about the issues of marginality and culture shock. They can circumvent this staggering loss of their most valuable resource by anticipating the first two stages of culture shock and then being proactive when their negative manifestations arise.
Know that new immigrants tend to be fascinated with cultural differences and that fascination may fade and turn to angst. Have the support systems in place and the organizational cultural awareness in place so your foreign-born physicians, nurses and others have the support to progress toward adaptation.
Supporting foreign-born colleagues often requires paradoxical thinking. One must strive to understand as much as possible, while understanding that you will never completely understand. Know that you don’t know. Strive to listen, observe and empathize the best you can.
Generally, the best advice about supporting our foreign-born colleagues comes from Jean, a health care provider who emigrated from Asia. She says, “I just want to forget about it. You’re not reminded several times a day about your ethnicity or background. No one comes up to you and starts speaking German, Italian, or Norwegian. No one gives you a hard time when you’re eating potato salad or goulash. So, don’t do it to me. Just let me relax and forget about it. That’s what I want.”
Brad Fern is president of Fern EPC, a coaching organization that specializes in adaptive coaching for physicians and health care executives. He is a licensed psychotherapist.